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Who makes the decisions in your home? Is it you or is it your partner?

Who makes the decisions in your home? Is it you or is it your partner?

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October 24, 2023•2 min read

Who makes the decisions in your home? Is it you or is it your partner?

Written by Justin Dulihanty on Oct. 15th 2022

MEN WHO DO NOT LEAD IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WILL FORCE THEIR PARTNERS TO LEAD.  WHEN A WOMAN IS FORCED INTO HER MASCULINE ENERGY BY A MAN WHO CANNOT TAKE THE LEAD, SHE WILL LOSE RESPECT, TRUST, AND SEXUAL DESIRE.

Ask yourself, "what woman wants to f*ck a child?" because that is the archetype we are being when we don't lead.

True, emotionally healthy women do not want to lead in their relationships, it’s a turn off to them. Women often leave men who lack drive, assertiveness, divisiveness, and a backbone, because they cannot trust their man, and when trust is gone, so is she. A weak, soft, limp man-child is incredibly unappealing to a woman.

So here are some things to do that can help you get back on track:

  1. Take initiative so she doesn’t always have to.

  2. Don’t constantly ask for her permission to do what you want to do.

  3. If she asks for your opinion, give YOUR opinion.

  4. Be assertive, deliberate and concise with your communication. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

  5. Stop waiting for her to ask you to do things around the house.

Start taking the lead. Step up, be certain in your decisions (even when you question them yourselves), develop your character, welcome challenges, face your fears and stop being so scared and agreeable, these are unattractive and untrustworthy behaviors that will eventually result in her departure.

If you have any questions, or, if you’re needing more assistance, you can book a free discovery call , so one of our highly trained coaches can help you get to the core of your challenges. Just follow the link in the top bar.

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Justin Dulihanty

I am one of the boy’s, a normal guy/dude/fella/knock-about kinda bloke with an unrelenting dedication and a deep passion to help you truly build a healthy self-esteem and a strong sense of self so that you can thrive in all areas of your life. ‍ I grew up with deep insecurities and lacked confidence and genuine self-worth, I wrestled with the inner voice telling me “I’m not good enough, not worthy, not deserving, not loveable”. ‍ Throughout my journey, I’ve struggled through learning disabilities, depression, anxiety, and hypochondria. I battled through multiple panic attacks daily and even considered suicide at my lowest point. ‍ I’ve behaved in ways to ensure people liked, accepted, approved and even feared me, all so I could feel a sense of significance or worth about myself. ‍ I’ve lost myself in relationships with abusive, manipulative and disloyal partners, and found myself through deep self-exploration and dedication to daily, diligent self-work. ‍ I’ve invested hundreds of thousands of dollars and racked up hundreds of hours on personal development in the hope of discovering a remedy for my pain and inner torment. Along the way, I have discovered tools which assisted in building the man I am proud to be today, which I now hand over to the students inside The Alpha Code Academy so they can fast-track what took me decades to achieve. ‍ My grueling journey gave me a gift - a vision that was unveiled to bridge the gap between insecure, self-shaming, weak guys and becoming emotionally developed, confident, self-assured men who can operate from their own code and inner authority. This vision led me to develop a way for men to take their lives back and turn their pain into power, through a potent pathway known as The Alpha Code.

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