She is CRAVING these 9 qualities in YOU, and without them you will run your sex life and relationship into the ground!

Written by Justin Dulihanty on Oct. 13th 2022

THE VERDICT IS CLEAR…

TWO MONTHS AGO I PUT OUT A POST CALLED “SHE IS CRAVING THESE 8 QUALITIES IN YOU” AND WITHIN 24 HOURS IT HAD BEEN SHARED OVER 108 TIMES!

Not surprising, 101 of those shares were from women. That tells us women truly are CRAVING these qualities in men.

From working in the personal development arena since 2013, and helping thousands of men around the world rebuild their self-worth, confidence and self-esteem after the painful relationship endings, I have recognized a behavioral pattern… 

And that is this… Women are not loyal to men, they are loyal to their deepest needs and fulfilment of their values, and if they are not being satisfied, they will begin to shut down, emotionally distance themselves and seek to have them fulfilled by someone else. 

Sounds harsh, but this is the truth. 

In case you missed this post, I decided to send it out to you in the hope it may arrive just in time to save your relationship, or better equip you with tools for your next one.

Here are 8 things (emotionally developed) women are needing from men:

1. Your feelings, emotions, and vulnerability. Open, honest, and authentic expression/communication allows for a deeper connection. The feminine needs to feel a connection in order for her sexual desire towards you to exist. And without it, they feel painfully isolated and lonely. 

2. To see you openly share your fears and witness you courageously facing them. Biologically, and at an unconscious level, seeing a man face his fears creates a feeling of safety, which is a turn-on.

3. To LISTEN to her challenges (within reason) without trying to fix her problems. When you listen without trying to offer a solution she will feel seen, heard, and safe. If you go into 'fixing/rescuing' mode, she may feel flawed and broken in your eyes.

4. Accept her full expression. Allow her to love, laugh, cry, feel, express as deeply as she needs to, and simply be there to either witness it or even encourage it. (No tolerating verbal or physical abuse)

5. Take the lead. Do the washing, cleaning, cook dinner, arrange a date night. Taking small chores off her hands allows her to drop into her feminine, which allows her to energetically be a woman. “Keep Friday night free, I have arranged dinner, be ready at 7:15pm I am picking you up”.

6. Have integrity. When your actions are congruent with your words, she can trust you. This allows her nervous system to relax, creating space and energy for her to feel open and expressive.

7. Slow the fuck down during sex, foreplay, for many women is better than sex itself. Remember the feminine is about time and experience, the masculine is all-around results (ejaculation)

8. Lay with her after sex. Getting up and leaving the room right away makes her feel used, and may trigger feelings of rejection, and/or trigger unresolved abandonment fears, which will negatively anchor sex.

9. Don't be a door mat. Women need to respect a man in order to find him sexually appealing. People-pleasing (behavior that is driven by the need to avoid conflict, rejection and abandonment) is not only untrustworthy and unattractive, it's frustrating.  

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